It's either you, or me. Neither.

Ever wondered if one day you or the other person somehow decides to read back old conversations.

Will you/he/she go ' hah, I'm glad he/she's out of my life'

or,

will you/he/she go 'Damnit, I miss this. Very much'

You're waiting for a particular person to make the move,

but

she or he is actually waiting for You to make the move.

Isn't ^ messed up?